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Posted by Margaret ( on May 14, 2002 at 15:22:00:

In Reply to: Good luck, hope it works out. (nt) posted by Brian(4w5) ( on May 12, 2002 at 18:36:09:

I've decided it's best to call off the whole romance thing altogether and just be friends instead. The pressure of pursuing anything more than just a light, easy-going, platonic friendship right now is just too much for me to handle right now. I shouldn't be going after anything more than platonic right now, it's just too much pressure for me, and I am already under a lot of stress and pressure as it is right now in many other areas of my life, the last thing I need is even more.
So, from now on, at this point in my life, anything and everything that suggests of anything that is more than friendship only in my life, has been all called off. I am just going to stay here and work permantly here, and meantime just work on building friendships, platonic friendships with people, nothing else, nothing more, it's too much pressure.
If after a year or two passes by and as I happen to get more confidence in my life, than maybe I might be more ready to pursue something a little more romantic with someone, but as for right now, I'm just not ready. I'm just not ready.
Much better to concentrate on just making plain old genuine frienships with people. For example, going on a walk, a bike ride, a boat ride, going to a baseball game, a movie, a comedy club, things like this. Someone to do things with. An activity friend. That's what I'm really looking for right now in my life, more than anything else, really. Someone to do things with. Someone who wants to get other people to do things with us together too. That's all.
Much better. Much better. There's no need for more pressure in our life. No way. Forget that. Life is too short. Let's just enjoy it instead. Peacefully and easy-going. Do activites togther. Meet other people. have fun. Take things light. Sit back, enjoy ourselves. That's all.
Much better that way. Much better.

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