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Posted by confused ( on December 01, 2002 at 10:27:52:

I'm trying to relate to a 5w4. I'm a 4w5. We draw together very strongly based upon non-verbal stuff, but periodically I get these strong anger episodes from him that seem to come from his wanting things he doesn't want to want. After a few days we start pulling toward each other again just like before. He tells me he wants to be left alone but in his actions doesn't show that. Is this hopeless? Is he just finally going to get angry and really give up? Is there anything I can do to help this develop into a more trusting relationship? I genuinely care for this person. It isn't an infatuation and I want to do anything I can to reduce his isolation but I don't know realistically how much that is. I don't know where to draw the line and say "enough."

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