Posted by Rich (18.104.22.168) on August 03, 2003 at 18:44:08:
In Reply to: Adventurous-Aggressive posted by Charlie (22.214.171.124) on August 02, 2003 at 18:51:05:
> I just started bouncing at a local club, and I find that it is great stimulation for my Adventurous-Aggressive personality. My first question to the boss was "when do I get to attack." Heh. It gets boring when everyone is behaving, but I notice that when someone slips up, my aggression towards them is more charged than if I were just a clubgoer mixed up in an altercation. Mentally, I am tougher than ever, and my tactics are more malicious. Unlike the other self-confident bouncer, who takes the calm, rational-communicative approach in the face of conflict, it is hard for me to restrain myself from lashing out when someone doesn't heed my warning. I wouldn't be surprised if one of these days I get a knife in the gut, or ball-batted in the parking lot. Ahhhh!!!! That risk makes the job all the more exciting.
> I also find a twisted thrill in kicking out drunk, beautiful women.
Why do you think that such a life fires you up? From what you have written, it seems to be the thrill of bouncing drunks that is the turn-on.... If its not too personal, what kind of rush do you get bouncing drunken, beautiful women?
I'm not being judgemental.... Being a Serious-Inventive-Sensitive, life is about containing risk; having a secure, comfortable, predictable life. For thrills, my type watches action-adventure movies! I would like to know how it is for you.... Rich
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