Posted by Dee (22.214.171.124) on September 18, 2003 at 17:40:44:
In Reply to: Type spotting posted by Charlie (126.96.36.199) on September 18, 2003 at 17:00:36:
> What are some instant signs to look for that would give a person away as a devoted and/or self-sacrificing type?
If you're speaking about women, it would be a woman who comes across as always smiling, agreeing with everything you say. Very interested in you're point of view and want's to hear more. Lot's of eye contact and perhaps will touch you (not necessarily in a sexual way) but to reassure you that they she is interested. Will ask questions like, "how are you feeling today? I remember the last time we spoke..." good memory for what you wore and flattery will come into play at some point always! You will here the truth but it will be geared towards your acceptance. eg. "oh, I have to go but I'll stay for another 5 minutes if you still want to chat. I don't mean to sound like I'm in a hurry, oh I'm not really I have time for you." (mean while she has to go, she's half hour late and it's killing her the whole time you're talking but you would never know because she is smiling and asking more questions). If you were really in tune with her, you would catch on and you would have to be very abrupt and tell her to go! She would then apologize and almost look like she is going to cry because she thinks her precious time is soooo important to you. (over estimation of her worth and low self-esteem combined makes this person an emotional wreck at times!) Type 2
Dee : )
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