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Posted by Dee ( on September 20, 2003 at 17:14:55:

In Reply to: lover boys posted by Jan den Breejen ( on September 20, 2003 at 07:39:07:

> In Rotterdam we have Morrocan boys who lure Dutch schoolgirls into prostition by making them think they love them, buy presents etc. Then they try to split them off from their parents, say they need money and ask or force them into prostitution....big money and big shame. Many of the girls end up in psychiatric institutions and the lover boys get light punishment. What kinda character styles would we most likely find in this interpersonal dynamics? View the comics link......


You refer to them as boys and girls - children. Who's teaching these Morrocan boys? Do they know each other? My guess is yes.
The girls they are praying on would be distinguished by the group as easy targets - girls wearing lots of make-up, tight clothing, smoking, drinking, basically showing signs of immaturity in the premature way they are presenting themselves - "Can you say Brittany!"
These girls are wearing a sign on their forhead that reads,"I'm emotionally neglected and have no direction." The boy steps in and becomes their emotional provider and director. Once the foundation is laid and their ego is stroked, they take it to the next level. "So Heike, you know I love you and that I'd do anything for you but you have to do something to convince me you love me to and you must do it or I'm leaving you!" Manipulation, pulling the wool over her eyes and by this time her been made distant from family and friends because all her focus must be on him, she is now falling through the "hole in the hat." Heike is now Alice!
Sorry, I'm getting carried away... ; )
Anyway, he's adventerous and she's devote.

Dee : )

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