Posted by Flower Pagan (126.96.36.199) on March 11, 2003 at 16:13:45:
In Reply to: I'm leaving the boards posted by Excalibur (188.8.131.52) on March 10, 2003 at 05:57:06:
Ex! I did not recognize you by that name, until I saw the same IP number with your name that I do recognized. I missed you!!! Where have you been? Do you still use your Yahoo IM? I have been waiting for you to come back. I know I have periods that I am not here because I have my own Yahoo Enneagram Group and plus I am a member of other Enneagram Groups on Yahoo and other Yahoo Groups.
I have lost about two members for the same reason why you are leaving here. Instead of leaving, how about giving Becca and I some advice in how we can better our Enneagram message boards, so we can keep our members happy. I don't know if Becca is interested in your advice or not, so I can't really speak for her, but I can speak for myself. I am having a conflict between two members from this board, and I am not sure what to do about it. Deleting everybody's post is not the solution because I have learned not to sweep things under the rug. This board is evident that things don't simply go away by deleting posts and ignoring people because they had this same problem between certain members for about 3 years. There has to be a solution, so we can truly enjoy the Enneagram together before we lose everybody over it.
We have to work together and save this website's community, not leave it to sink. Please, don't go, Excalibur. We all been through too much together as a community to give up on it now. Maybe, I am a dreamer, but dreams can come true if we work towards the realization of that dream. It is obvious that we do share a bond like relatives of the Enneagram Community where we will have ups and downs, disagreements, and all the interesting things that comes with human relationships, even though we don't see one another faces on this board. It is a mental connection, I guess. If you decide to leave, I respect your decision with no negative feelings and thoughts towards you. I understand!!!
...is a Worshipper of the Creator of the Flowers and an appreciator of beauty and harmony!
> I've been here for over 3 years and it's really helped in my personal development. But i just don't have the energy or desire to post on here anymore. It seems there's nobody left here anyway... maybe if the place gets better i'll post again, but for now i'm off. Thanks to everyone who helped me with my issues and provided feedback on my views and opinions. I feel kinda like i'm speaking to the community of a ghost town or something, i doubt there'll be many responses. Anyway, my email is in the post so those who'd like to can keep in contact. I have ICQ although i rarely use it anymore - 8897663 is the number.
> Good luck with the rest of your lives.
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