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Posted by Muni (172.152.8.160) on April 18, 2003 at 09:24:35:

In Reply to: Re: Why? posted by raz62 (12.108.99.30) on April 09, 2003 at 11:41:55:

Hi,
That sucks what happened to you and the way you describe it some bastards really took advantage of you and the declining market. And while it is true that some of us need to let of 'negative steam' in order to deal with it, Margaret's case is different. She is always going thru this cycle of Blame & Escape. Haven't you noticed? First it was her neighbor, and she fantasized about living in New York, then she found nothing but trouble and problems with 'them' and she MOVED - and now she is finding trouble with the OTHERS again and indicates that she needs to escape.

I am this harsh with Margaret because, actually, I rather like her. But she needs to deal with this, or she will never move ahead in life. (and if I recall correctly, she is also not a teenager. She should have figured out a lot of this stuff already)

> My advice to you? Go ahead and use this Board and anyone else to get your anger out through verbalizing it, I did, even though others told me to stop being so negative (Type 5s were especially impatient with my constant harping on it) -- but too bad, 4s deal with things by expressing those emotions until they have been reduced and dealt with. Also, moving is not such a bad idea if you can afford it, but there are "Bad" people everywhere, don't forget that.




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