Posted by Ella (220.127.116.11) on April 30, 2003 at 15:55:44:
In Reply to: Re: type 4s and social anxiety posted by marzi (18.104.22.168) on April 25, 2003 at 01:39:12:
Ouch. Not to be rude, but I hope that we 4s aren't bound to a destiny of emotional torment this way. Tell me you've been ok once!!!!
I am SO rude. Scuse me.
I'm a 4, and I love to speak and perform but it doesn't make it easy. I want to be noticed and appreciated but inexplicably, I'm no Shirley Temple (ah well..). I get sweaty palms (yum), my voice cracks, especially when singing etc. It's just a matter of finding confidence and facing your anxiety with a raised eyebrow. My drama exam last week was hellish! But I'm doing it for A-level. ;D
>I have strong insecurities which lead me to pick partners with which intimacy is not possible due to either their or my emotional reservation.
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