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Re: Is anyone else looking for LOVE?
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Re: Is anyone else looking for LOVE?


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Posted by Rho (24.61.40.6) on May 03, 2003 at 21:10:12:

In Reply to: Is anyone else looking for LOVE? posted by Rob (141.133.152.229) on May 03, 2003 at 12:46:33:

> So is anyone else looking for love?

Who isn't? But for me, it's not gonna happen.


I have just decided to make my heart hard about this one guy who seemed interested. I mentioned before that it is extrememly rare that I meet a guy that I like.
Anyway, he let me think he was interested, he asked me to go out, & called me the next day, and then ... "fizzle". He called me this afternoon, I was moving, & when I was done I called back, left a message - & no repsonse. On a Saturday evening. If he was interested in seeing me, he would have checked his phone. That sends me a message that he's not motivated to be with me. I want to renounce him & I'm afraid he'll call again in like a week & I'll be all weak & lose my resolve.

But anyway, I have to give him up, because I'll be hurt & humiliated and I am not strong enuf to tolerate being ... Actually, I am not strong enuf to tolerate being in a relationship. The older you get, the harder it is. You get real skittish.


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