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Re: Relationship...I'm "stuck"...what am I doing w~

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Posted by Rho ( on May 04, 2003 at 10:27:09:

In Reply to: Relationship...I'm "stuck"...what am I doing wrong posted by Minbari ( on May 03, 2003 at 22:45:43:

In your situation I would just chill and relinquish my connection with this person. Relinquish all desire to have her time, her attention. Put her behind you and find a way to do what you do in a fresh way. Work on being self reliant. Read some new books or get a hobby. Maybe some day the two of you will have a new way of relating. BUt maybe you won't. BUt it is sure that you can't be free till you make your emotional attachements to and expectations about this person go away.

ps: You don't say where you are, but I wonder if your options are limited because of your environment?

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