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Posted by Ella ( on May 04, 2003 at 14:09:52:

In Reply to: Re: Ouch! posted by Rho ( on May 04, 2003 at 12:34:11:

Rho, I'm so glad you're not still thinking about it. From a point of view from someone who's never met you, in any situation like this regardless of the people involved, there are SO many different explanations and I'm not even remotely kidding. There really are. So don't you worry your head for a single second.

> **Accept that maybe it's her fault that she's not sitting with you, and **that it's her issues as opposed to your character.

> Hold on to that idea. I find it hard to hold on to myself. In my case, I have to remind myself that maybe this guy that asked me out - maybe he had a fight with his girlfreind, and I was a way of getting revenge. So, his dissapearing on me has nothing to do with my character, but that he has a way of handling his emotinal stuff that has a negative impact on someone trusting, like me... Once he makes up with the girl, I become irrelevant. That's my theory about whats going on. It still hurts to lose (again!) my dream of being with the kind of guy I'd want to be with, but it helps me to not go on thinking & thinking about it.

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