Posted by alba (184.108.40.206) on May 12, 2003 at 14:00:25:
In Reply to: Calling all happy fours.....anyone? posted by Angela (220.127.116.11) on May 11, 2003 at 20:06:39:
here comes the follow up
I am very happy to be a four. Melancholy is a source of growth to me. it gets me deeper into myself, my thinking and feeling. To me it is a way to get closer to the wonderfull and unique self that I was meant to be in the first place. even those nasty depressions, I am depressed at the moment, are of help. after many years of struggling and fighting I'm finally learning to ask for help, not to isolate for to long and getting in contact with what I call G'D. After going through those times in my emotional wilderness the sun always looks brighter and friends have become closer. And me for myself usually come out abit stronger a bit more patient.
thats enough for now
from a grateful and happy 4
> Looking over the topics on the four board, all I see is depression, angst, anxiety and self-doubt - which I have too. But are you basically condemned to be unhappy of you're a four? Even the enneagram book describes fours as "melancholy". But I need to believe there's a chance for happiness - even for angsty fours. So, are there any happy fours our there; anyone who is contented, fulfilled, at peace? Please let me know, bring a ray of light to the gloomy four board.
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