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Posted by Rho ( on May 12, 2003 at 23:16:08:

In Reply to: Re: Margaret, posted by Margaret ( on May 12, 2003 at 19:59:23:

>> ***What do you mean, which feelings do you feel you have to hide,
feeling that I really like someone. In almost every case, its not been returned.

>>> What benefit do you get from hiding them?

It means that they cannot use it to humilate you, to hurt you or to feel they have power over you. Or that, on finding out how much you like them, that they won't head for the hills.

and to answer your question, yes, it is with all intimate relationships. I've never been able to say what I wanted, cause I figured as soon as I make demands, they guy would just leave me.

Sound crazy, huh?

I guess I've had a lot of bad experiences. And I was realy unprepared for life when I left my parents house, and was also pretty poorly prepared to have a healthy relationship. So the bad luck didn't help.

ps: they should let you stay in the library as long as you like! Just tell them you'll lock up when you leave!

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