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Being Ignored Because You Are EType 4

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Posted by Raz62 ( on May 14, 2003 at 13:07:46:

In Reply to: Re: Being E Type 4 is another Unfair obstacle to f~ posted by raz62 ( on May 14, 2003 at 10:19:30:

This person whom all the guys I work with fall all over themselves for is about 20 pounds underweight with not much to speak of in curves (butt or breasts.) She does have a pretty face. Big deal, so do I.

I feel that because she is an extremely extraverted 2/3 sexual, she hogs up all of the attention, and the males, equally insensitive to the rest of us, just go along with it.

Sometimes I feel like such a kicked around piece of sh!t, I have so much going on with me and no one here takes an interest. It's strange, too, because I remember lots of times in the past where guys were relieved to have someone like me around, they literally winced at the off-color and constant sexual innuendos coming from the 2/3 sx types and they would gravitate toward talking to me. I feel like I've been dropped into this horrible world for the past three years where all the rules of reality I knew for thirty-some years disappeared once I walked into this workplace. And I'll repeat it -- I HATE HATE HATE it.

It was at the point where some of us talked about going to Human Resources and complaining that certain women got more "perqs" based on their sexuality over those of us who are actually just doing our jobs without any sexual come-ons attached. It is a form of sexual discrimination and harassment but I don't know if it's ever been brought to court as an official case.

I don't even feel good that I make more money than this person -- because I should be making WAY more money than this person!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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