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Posted by Ella ( on May 16, 2003 at 04:51:27:

In Reply to: unattainable posted by Rho ( on May 15, 2003 at 15:00:06:

Wow, Rho, thanks. I nevers aw it like that before. I daydream a lot about having a boyfriend, or s.o., and I used to be SO hung up on finding him. But now.. I dunno. I do get scared like that. I know that having an s.o. isn't the be-all and end-all of life, but it seems like quite a big thing for people - so, why can't I deal with that?
-Ella, xx

> I've found that chasing the unattainable is form of self protection. "Self protection?!", you say - "this is killing me! - How can it be self-protection"

> Well, it keeps intimacy at bay. I am seeing that the one thing I really want to avoid it intimacy. And I'm not alone in this.

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