Tests  Types  Diagrams  Books  Forums  Enneagram Relationships  What's hot now  Search
Main | Type 4 | Type 5 | Movie | Care | Chat

Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive

Re: is this an insult? please help
[ Boards: Main, Type4, Type5, Movie, Care, Chat ][ Top 10 ] [ HOME ]

Re: is this an insult? please help


[ Follow Ups ] [ Post Followup ] [ Type 4 Message Board ]

Posted by Lori (152.163.252.8) on May 29, 2003 at 17:35:38:

In Reply to: Re: is this an insult? please help posted by raz62 (12.108.99.30) on May 28, 2003 at 08:41:19:

While the popular politically correct viewpoint is that 40 something women can still be attractive, i feel that many people don't 'buy' it and continue to devalue them. (Unless you do look like the movie starts mentioned!) I personally felt less attractive that day, which is one reason i took such offense to her remark; i was reacting to the "something missing" of my lost youth and beauty. And when she refused to listen to my point of view on that, i felt "misunderstood" and all my 4ish issues snowballed. Sometimes i feel i look older than my years (45) because of all the thinking and worrying about such things.


Follow Ups:



Post a Followup

Name:
E-Mail:

Subject:

Comments:

Optional Link URL:
Link Title:
Optional Image URL:


[ Follow Ups ] [ Post Followup ] [ Type 4 Message Board ] [ FAQ ]
type4board/messages/33226.html