Posted by cj (188.8.131.52) on May 30, 2003 at 08:22:51:
In Reply to: trying my best to destroy the treasure posted by stupid stupid girl (me) (184.108.40.206) on May 29, 2003 at 22:35:23:
Hi! I used to post here a lot, then fell out of touch, and am back now. I am a 4w5 by the way. Anyhow, it seems pretty simple to me. Leave her alone. When someone tells you in practically every way they can that they need some space, you should respect that. Don't be so self-centered. You are placing your need to "define" the relationship and "clarify" things to invade her space, psychologically speaking. Respecting a person's wishes is a way to gain trust.
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