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Posted by cancerdog ( on June 19, 2003 at 06:39:30:

In Reply to: Re: dating advice for 4s posted by j ( on June 19, 2003 at 03:59:11:

> hi.
> i think that meeting people that know your close group of friends in a small group gathering is the best way, or maybe at church or schol. bars are out definetly. although i have to admit that most of the guys i've dated i've just met in odd places like sears photo place or in a computer lab or at a small backyard concert. one i only met cause he knew my roomate and left a funny message on our message machine, so i left a funny one on his, and then he called for me. i'm weird i guess....

> j

Thanks for the response. I agree that meeting through friends, church, etc. is the best method. It just never seems to happen that way. I have tried to date through the Internet but it is scary for a 4 to subject yourself to rejection if the guy doesn't like your appearance or finds another date as some guys are serial daters. I am a decent looking person but as most 4s I am very insecure. I have met some good people on the Internet but nothing serious. How do you end up meeting someone at a lab, concert, etc? What "pick up lines do you use"? I am very nervous to approach a man. I guess I should be more confident and get over my fear of rejection... M

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