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Re: hello fellow 4w3!!!

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Posted by raz62 (TheBlob) ( on June 19, 2003 at 07:36:49:

In Reply to: Re: hello fellow 4w3!!! posted by j ( on June 19, 2003 at 03:51:23:

> i think us 4w3's are really concerned with everyone liking us, more than the 4w5's. they are more content to just say that people that don't like them just suck or are stupid or unenlightened or somthing. what do you think??
> j

>>>>>>>It's 2 different things with me: 1.liking and 2. respecting. Yes, I admit, both things bother me. When someone doesn't seem to like me, though, I can usually block it out, I have family and a few close friends to turn to. But my 3 wing really comes out when it is a work situation, then when I am snubbed socially for no reason I can think of, I get really pissed off, it's as if they are saying I'm an inconsequential invisible nothing, not part of the "team." When of course my goal is always to move up, both in a self-preservation sense AND a social sense.

BTW there are a few 4/3s hanging around here now -- I love 4/3s! They seem to instantly understand me and never attack me for my flaws, because they share my flaws! So I hope you keep posting.

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