Posted by j (18.104.22.168) on June 24, 2003 at 01:42:50:
In Reply to: Re: dating advice for 4s posted by cancerdog (22.214.171.124) on June 23, 2003 at 18:44:27:
> I have a hard time if someone is a P sometimes because I get hurt thinking that if they really liked me they would make time for me and be able to plan ahead of time. Yes, it is tough being a 4 and needing deep relationships. I often think it is hard to find men that have the passion and desire for intensity I have. I don't want someone as intense but at least have some of it.
> My name is Cancerdog because astrologically I am a Cancer and according to Chinese Astrology my sign is a dog. I am not an astrology fanatic but find it interesting.
> How does your 9 partner find your feelings and or intensity? What are your biggest challenges being together? Is there any enneagram you would never date or get along with the worst?
******************I'm gemini and also i think my sign in Chinese astrology is a dragon, so i'm geminidragon, i guess. catchy.
ya. feelings and intensity. my 9 mostly enjoys my feelings and intensity. and i enjoy his stability. in the beginning of our relationship i was the one who had the problem with him not being deep enough or intense enough. it took a long time for him to open up to me. our biggest problems now come when we are both tired and stressed out. cause at that point, i really want to talk everything to death, and he wants space and quiet. if only one of us is stressed, it's ok, cause he has the patience to hear me out when I'm stressed, and make me feel all loved and i have the patience to just be, and make him feel nice and loved when He's stressed.
the ennegram type that i find it the hardest to get along with. hmmmm. i have troubles with unhealthy 8's and unheathy 1's. but i love the healthy versions. how about you??
j, aka geminidragon
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