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Posted by emoot(: ( on June 24, 2003 at 14:13:52:

In Reply to: Dream guy/ girl posted by Justin ( on June 24, 2003 at 10:33:31:

> Hey fellow fours,

> In light of questioning what sort of person would really suit me as a life long partner, would you guys mind sharing with me what our ideal partner would be like? What would he or she have that others wouldn't? I really wished I knew what I am after or what will finally satisfy my lonely soul.

> Yours,

> Justin

= Strangely it's not what I thought. I married a very sweet 6w5/ISFJ...sometimes he posts on here as emlogic.
He's it for me... for more than a couple of reasons and keeping in mind... nobody's perfect.

One thing is that he is a bit different from me....that intrigues me. Yeah, we have had our communication breakdowns from time to time and our relationship has been tested with some hard blows(every relationship has to walk through some fire...it's just life).... but through it all, the drama, the fun, the loyalty, the hard work... we have never lost that spark of love, we have been able to cling together(and we have both been dedicated to making it work...sometimes going far and beyond normal expectations)....and I am still wildly attracted to him...he never gets old.

Sometimes I just stare at him when he's doing something...like the other day.. he was standing in a group of people across the room from me just talking and being himself.... and I found myself looking at him and thinking to myself...."He looks good.......I can't believe I am married to him." Maybe it is because I know him almost as well as myself...every little familiar movement or expression he makes...is like some kind of home to me.

The thing is that we have been good for each other. We have the same faith, political viewpoint, and ideals of family. We have figured out where we needed to compromise and how to communicate with each other. He has sacrificed for me and I have for him.....albeit on different levels. I keep him loose and he keeps me grounded. It is synergy.....and at the most basic level...it is good. (:


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