Posted by Damian (22.214.171.124) on June 25, 2003 at 01:28:08:
In Reply to: Dream guy/ girl posted by Justin (126.96.36.199) on June 24, 2003 at 10:33:31:
The enneagram institute website has a breakdown of how every type is with every other type in a relationship. It includes potential problem areas as well as commonalities shared between all the different type combinations. I think the web address is www.enneagraminstitute.com.
Although, while this might be helpful in understanding what has gone wrong or right in your past relationships, I think that when we fall in love it has nothing to do with any plan on our parts. In short, while you might be looking for the ideal partner for you, that search will have nothing to do with reaching your goal of love. While I think it does help to know what you're looking for before you find love, it can also be a problem when you expect the person you are with to measure up to your expectation of the ideal mate.
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