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Re: Dream guy/ girl

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Posted by TheBlob ( on June 25, 2003 at 12:21:42:

In Reply to: Re: Dream guy/ girl posted by TheBlob ( on June 25, 2003 at 08:07:12:

I've been with the same guy for almost 9 years now and it works, God knows how, we are two extremists. That's probably why it works, we kind of understand each other and are not shocked by anything the other does. He is an 8/9 and I'm a 4/3. It's a good balance because he is relaxed at home, the 9 comes out more, which is nice to be around. Outside he is a real 8. Yes when he and I are out together I have left stores and other public places totally red in the face (I'm a Social variant first so I get embarassed VERY easily) after he has chewed out someone for incompetent service, rudeness, etc. When he is down, he really gets like a big lump (8 goes to 5, plus the 9 wing), then it is a good thing I have a strong 3 wing 'cause I kind of keep everything moving on schedule. He is brutally honest, individualistic, and we share a strong interest in visual arts. He can be very charismatic at times, I suspect he is a sexual variant first for that reason. I think you (Justin) might like a type 8 female, they balance out the 4 weaknesses pretty well.

As for 6/5s, I should not have dismissed 5s and 6s as attractive in my earlier posts. I just think I would spend more time arguing with a 6 than doing anything else.

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