Posted by cancerdog (22.214.171.124) on July 02, 2003 at 19:19:45:
In Reply to: Re: dating advice for 4s posted by j (126.96.36.199) on June 29, 2003 at 00:28:48:
> > Your 9 sounds like a very healthy/developed 9. Patience, security, and affection are definite pluses of 9s. I have found 9s have a hard time with conflict and emotions so you are lucky. 9s definitely like their space which I guess can also be desirable to a 4.
> > The types I dislike the most are 3s and 7s. They are both so narcissistic. I also feel 1s are too critical and 5s too unobtainable. One thing I have finally come to terms with is that I really need and want love and affection despite my fear of abondonment or not feeling worthy of being loved so those types will not make me happy or be healthy for me in the long run.
> > Are there certain parts of the country where different types tend to live? I live in Boston and it seems there are a lot of 5s, 1s, and some 8s.
> > Gemini and a dragon would make sense being a 4--very imaginitive, creative... I think that some astrological signs would be a natural for some types. I think a lot of 9s and 5s are Libras. Do you see any correlation?
> *************my nine is an Aries. hmmm... does not seem to fit so well, but he is 9w8, soo...
Yes, an Aries that is a 9 is unusual. I have started dating an Aries 4 but I don't know if it is the best match. I think a 9 or 6 is better for security. This dating is very confusing. I can't wait until I am in a relationship again and don't have to deal with this bs. Thanks for your advice.
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