Posted by Ella (126.96.36.199) on July 11, 2003 at 11:56:27:
In Reply to: Re: An example... posted by The4Blob (188.8.131.52) on July 11, 2003 at 08:08:20:
> > I think the ultimate goal for a 4 is to unlock and change these beliefs. While I wish that I could explain all of this to the guy that I fell for, it is most probably futile, and wise to restrain, at least for the meantime. It could very easily be misunderstood. The challenge for me now is to start to unravel this newfound information and challenge these beliefs.
Possibly you have a 3wing. I have that, and find that I am pre-occupied with my "image", the way I present myself to people.
But I also have little to say, except that I'm really glad that you've used the enneagram to work things out in your life already. That's really what's it's useful for.
And hey! Don't be so down on 4s. They're also artistic, creative, visionary, intuitive, perceptive and unique. Woo! ;D
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