Posted by Wingman (126.96.36.199) on July 13, 2003 at 17:29:49:
In Reply to: am I a 4 or 5? posted by schrips (188.8.131.52) on July 13, 2003 at 16:43:25:
If you are male you can say 5w4. If you are a female you can say 4w5.
Then you can be both. In either case, you would have a resistance to
"integration at a security point." 5 going to 8 (Dad) would be tough.
4 going to 1 is usually a challenge also (accountability and insensitivity.) Another option: Annie Lennox or Stevie Nicks?
Daniel Day Lewis or Nick Nolte? England or France? INTP or INFP?
Consider meeting with other people familiar with the ennegram and
obtain some feedback. Finally, try not to dwell on "getting it right."
Eventually, some "aha" moment will occur on its own if you remain open
to exploring the Enneagram. For the moment you are in the "void, abyss,
black hole at the 'bottom' of the Enneagram." Focus on "being" as an
antidote to thinking and feeling. That is where clarity is more likely
to be found (IMHO.) Enjoy the adventure.
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