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How to find your dream/ideal home?

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Posted by Margaret ( on July 17, 2003 at 17:56:31:

***I'm still trying to figure out where my permanent ideal home should be. I need to find a "home". A permanent home. Because I am feeling so homesick right now. I cam sure that once I do find this ideal home, I will no longer feel so homesick anymore. Right?
I know it should be at least be on a lake in the woods, not too crowded, but also not too remote (I changed my mind about living in Yellowstone, WY, I didn't realize there's hardly any population) I've been looking at pictures of Lake Coeur D'Alene, ID and Lake Flathead, MT wondering if I should live there (or just vacation), but all this planning my dreams, I'm still not feeling comfortable about it yet. I even think I'm starting to get seasick from trying to think of which lake I want to live on. I don't even know anymore. Should I stay here in PA or ID or back to WI? I think maybe what I should do is just take a trip out west and check out these lakes to at least get it out my system. Then later I can live in PA more permanently. The only problem of living in ID (which will probably not be that likely) or PA (which has lot chance to being likely) is, I am homesick.
And that's what I have been feeling a lot lately.
I am feeling so homesick lately, yet here I am trying to find a home where I can feel "at home". The more I try to find where I feel most "at home", the more homesick I feel.
I don't know where I should live to stop feeling so homesick. Where should I live? Which lake? Which state? Whcih town? Should I live in WI or PA?
I don't know. I can't decide. Job wise doesn't help, because either place job market opportunity is equal. My family (whom I miss, as well as old friends) are in WI. But there is something I like about right here in PA.
I just don't know anymore. What do you all think?
How do you know where you want to live? Your dream/ideal home?

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