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Re: Don't feel bad

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Posted by Margaret ( on July 23, 2003 at 19:31:51:

In Reply to: Don't feel bad posted by Sharlee ( on July 20, 2003 at 03:55:01:

***You are right, I could be making this to be a whole much bigger deal than it really is. And yes, I'm sure she is worth is, and yes, she probably won't judge me by that, and yes, I will be brave, and go back to see her.

> Margaret, it is a normal reaction to not enjoy reunions when you feel you haven't measured up to the gang you left 10 years ago. But you need to tell yourself that true friends will not judge you by material success and if your friend still wants to see you after 10 years then she's probably genuine and worth holding onto and cultivating. She obviously sees somthing in you that you yourself don't. Everything in its own time - enjoy the moment and let go of the future.

> Sharlee 1w2

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