Posted by Pharaoh (188.8.131.52) on July 25, 2003 at 20:35:10:
In Reply to: Re: Intimacy Issues posted by emoot(: (184.108.40.206) on July 25, 2003 at 10:25:26:
"But, you guys met in cyberspace and that is where your comfort zone is."
She seems to get along with me just fine! She says when she feels as though she knows someone she can get along with them. With me however, seeing someone in person is different, I think it's me that keeps the wall up.
I really like your advice, that's what I've been thinking. I just need to learn to be comfortable around her. I think seeing her day to day is helping. I've been noticing a small improvement. Right now I'm working on being able to joke around and be the silly person that I really am. I'm all serious like, most of the time right now.
When I get my courage up enough I'll ask her to go on that walk with me! I've been thinking of asking her to go to the park, I can't quite make the words come out though. I don't want to rush anything though (taking mental note of that) as much as I keep telling myself that I do. Thanks for the advice :)
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