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Posted by Jules ( on July 29, 2003 at 02:52:42:

In Reply to: Hello posted by stephanie ( on July 28, 2003 at 21:09:36:

> Hello again, this is Stephanie. As I stated, I'm 29 and married/no kids.
> I'm not working anymore. I've been going to school although I find the task extremely boring and want to give up. I guess I'm freaking out alittle because 30 is right around a corner and feel that certain things should of been obtained by now or long ago.

********Hey, Stephanie. I know exactly how you feel. I'm 28 years old and I'm in school as well and I feel like I'm wasting my time and that I should know what I want to do by now. But I think its good that you're not working and sorting things out. It's important to really find out what you want to do with your life. As a four, life is too short to be doing things you don't want to do. I don't know if this will help but for me I notice that sometimes I expect too much of myself with work and end up getting more stressed than I should. I also realized that for my situation I work better when I'm working for myself rather than for someone else. Another thing I learned is that its good to listen to your hunches. If you hate doing something or working somewhere it probably isn't for you or else you would enjoy doing it. Hope this helps...good luck!

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