Posted by The4Blob (126.96.36.199) on July 29, 2003 at 08:20:26:
In Reply to: Re: Hello posted by Dee (188.8.131.52) on July 28, 2003 at 22:53:26:
There is an example of the kind of pernicious person (your sister-in-law) who is probably an SJ -- if you can just ignore her and not let her affect your feelings, would there still be a problem? Types like that actually go out of their way to screw up our lives -- for example, you might get all set to go for a certain degree at school, and just then she'll talk your father-in-law into asking you and your husband to leave, perhaps ruining your plans because of the finances. Still you must be true to yourself and explore careers. I'm still trying to figure out what the 4s/NFs of the world should do to stop letting others take take take from us constantly when we are fulfilling our potential.
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