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Type 3 men and Type 4 women (or just me)

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Posted by Dee ( on August 03, 2003 at 13:12:57:

Type 3 men (whom I've dated two most recently) want a non-demanding relationship where they can have their cake and eat it too. They want to get intouch with their feeling which Type 4's are excellent with but when this happens, the Type 4 becomes emotionally involved and the Type 3 doesn't. When the Type 3 realizes the Type 4 is getting emotionally involved, they become distant and cold. Type 4 is always dreaming of what next and Type 3 is thinking of how to get out of the situation they didn't mean to get into in the first place. Type 3 will then encourage Type 4 to come back to reality and Type 4 will inturn encourage Type 3 back to their emotions. Here comes the wall..... CRASH!!!!! Type 4 hit it, but Type 3 jumped right over scott free. Type 3 a few weeks or months later will want to get back intouch with their feeling and will call Type 4, Type 4 may or may not go back on the road with them, probably will and the same thing inevitably will happen again. Type 4's sometimes never learn. Type 3 could care less.

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