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Posted by Margaret ( on August 06, 2003 at 19:17:07:

In Reply to: agreed posted by Randy ( on August 04, 2003 at 20:49:51:

I'm not looking for the "perfect" relationship, just *A* relationship, (with someone in particular who just happens to interest me).

What you might be saying however, is that I can't do all these 'things' with him, and sure you're probably right. I would be happy wiht just one or tow, or even none, jsut as long as I can see him.

Of course, that would naturally mean I would have to develop other friendships with others in order to have activity partner to do all these thing with. But why would that have to be romantic? Why couldn't it be just platonic?

> Yeah, it's hard to find people that you know
> you could actually really get on well with.
> They always seem to be taken.

> Also, (I know the dreamkiller part) remember
> that as 4's we tend to idealize the "perfect"
> relationship. It is, and can only be perfect
> in our minds. Reality can never measure up
> to our imaginations. I hope that's what heaven
> will be like though. :S

> I definitely encourage you to work on
> enjoying yourself. Don't get caught on
> what you don't have. It will make you
> sad.

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