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Posted by P ( on August 07, 2003 at 08:23:57:

In Reply to: Women... posted by Lakhesis ( on August 06, 2003 at 21:04:10:

> We assume that men are only interested in skinny women with big boobs and vacuous minds, but this actually isn't the case at all!

***The media tells people that stick chicks with fake tits pasted onto their chests are desirable. They are not. Skinny chicks are by and large inadequate sexually.

> Sure, it helps to be physically attractive and live up to a guys 'list' if you're just wanting to get meaninglessly laid, but men actually do really crave deep traits in intimate relationships. These are the hard bits for 4's to get around- we feel so deeply and so intensely that the idea of someone else entering our inner landscape is terrifying because it makes us feel SO vulnerable and SO ready to be hurt.

***It seems to me 4's can float from relationship to relationship easier than many types.

> There's also the UTTER importance of chemistry- it's either there, or it's not, and depends very little on physical attractiveness.

***My discourse on immunocompatibility and partner selection explains this. Follow your nose over your eyes.

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