Posted by Margaret (188.8.131.52) on August 07, 2003 at 15:59:56:
In Reply to: you can posted by Randy (184.108.40.206) on August 06, 2003 at 21:03:48:
> You can do all of those things. ***IF young.
***When you're young, sure. But when you get older, less and less people are able to do things with you because their "need for freedom" suddenly disappears, and one day they all have kids and family needing attending to, and thne have NO need for it.
There was a short BRIEF time when I wanted kids too, but I think it was more just to be on par with everyone else and to not feel like such an oddball than what I really wanted.
Truth is I DON'T want kids. I'd rather marry someone who already had kids from a previous marriage (and does NOT have full time live-in custody of them) because like I said in the above post, I happen to be this very strange person who very strangley oddly enough, actually ENJOYS freedom and not being tied-down to stuff, of all things - and yes, I know that is VERY STRANGE, even possilby highly abnormal compared to everyone else (outside very young adults), but hey, that's the way I am, I just like freedom, always have, always will.
Of course, I'm stuck with the consequences, of it however. That is, not being able to find companionship to enjoy it with.
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