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My husband is a type 6 as well..
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My husband is a type 6 as well..


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Posted by Stephanie (67.8.12.80) on August 08, 2003 at 18:21:05:


Hi everyone. I just wanted to comment on this post. I just had my husband take the test last week and the result was that he is a 6type. I don't know his wing type though. My husband is very loyal to me-even if I bring up "fantasy" stuff like bringing in a girl for a one time thing, he's like no way. He's very hardworking-when we "finally" went on a cruise for a vacation-he got sick. When we were on our honeymoon-he got sick. When we went overseas for a trip-he got sick. His world is work and home. He is a perfectionist and I'am too but I think I've turned more into one since being with him. Although I'm a type4 and do have my problems, he never has left me-with all of my insecurities (which were out of control in the beginning) and my depression etc. He never really gave me the third degree, he just lets me stew in my own mess and goes about his self. Sometimes I think he is cold-he won't give me the sympathy I want. but on the other hand it opens my eyes and I see that it is of my own doing and only I have control over myself. Nobody will do it for me. I have learned more about myself being with him than my parents. Parents tried to control me. I was used to it. My husband gives me free reign, and that is what I had the most difficult time with adjusting to. I wanted him to control me so I wouldn't have to learn to think for myself. It was hard for me to trust this. So, so far so good. I love my 6. He is such a good person and I learn alot from him. I too have shared my type4 qualities with him. We balance each other out.


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