Posted by Margaret (220.127.116.11) on August 09, 2003 at 15:16:20:
In Reply to: how do other people do it? posted by Margaret (18.104.22.168) on August 09, 2003 at 14:54:09:
Also, that's how it's related . The same reason it was hard for me to sacrifice 'freedom' for security was because I'd be sacrifycing the only way I had to defend myself, the same reason for me to establish an intimate relationship.
Because once you sacrifice your 'freedom' to move/live away, to someplace *away* from your intimate, just to protect yourself, - but say now you start making moves that practically seem to be leading the opposite way, and say you end up finding yourself staying close to where he is instead, now what?
Now how do you protect yourself now? Now what? Same thing. How do you do that now too, protect yourself there too?
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