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Posted by Margaret ( on August 16, 2003 at 14:58:57:

In Reply to: Re: Seriously posted by P ( on August 15, 2003 at 22:32:59:

> Have you ever considered your mother has influenced your attitutes tremendously?

***Yes. However, in no way am I interested in carrying (or passing on) her 'legacy'. I prefer to live life on my own terms, in my own way, how it best suits and fullfills me, and the others I most care about.

> You exhibit the repressed hedonism/trapdoor release attitudes of average to low level ones and perhaps it was your 1w2 mother who instilled this?

***The best physical release (after a back & neck massage), I have found so far in my experience is lifting weights.
I currently do not know of any other 'outlets' that are healthy and safe, and if it doesn't meet that criteria, I most certainly do not care to.
Although I am nearing ready to having a relationship in the near future, if again, however, I discover something that is not safe nor healthy, I still will not have of it.
So basically same criteria, whether alone or with another.

> It seems like many on this board had a 1w2 mother. I had one who was very prohibitive and overprotective. ESTJ also. Boring for a child of any type to have.

***Boredom was something I never had a problem with. I either have lots of things on my mind to preoccupy me with, or want nothing on my mind but just peace.

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