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Posted by FourEver ( on September 08, 2003 at 10:31:57:

In Reply to: Re: Duped posted by Rho ( on September 08, 2003 at 08:51:56:

Thanks for your reply. The thing is, I am romantic in relationships, but not a romance junkie (too damned old for that). I suspected he was hiding something from me from the beginning, and expressed it periodically to him, I just didn't know what it was. I'll meet him at lunchtime and perhaps broach the subject. Not exactly something I want to embark on in the middle of a workday.

I've always had a thing about lying and honesty is the most important trait I look for in anyone I have in my life. I told the guy this the 1st conversation we had about what we require in people.

As far as romance junkies: I've found young males (under 30) to be huge romance junkies. Do a lot of projection and are not grounded in the reality of the other person. No matter what type they are.

> Romance junkies are prone to being duped by "Loverrrs" . I think the Romance Junkie distribution is in pretty high distribution among 4s.

> (I just found a really good book about 'love additction' . Its the Active Love Avoidants that are so seductive, powerful etc.

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