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Posted by FourEver ( on September 08, 2003 at 16:28:52:

In Reply to: Re: just got back from lunch a short time ago.. posted by Raz62 ( on September 08, 2003 at 14:26:09:

Thanks. Things will work out the way they work out. I told him to be himself, that he doesn't have to be anyone other than who he is for me. He did mention that he 'got in over his head' and didn't actually anticipate us getting serious. I can't understand lying though ~ I mean, I can understand his motivation, but could never do that myself. I am very one-ish in that aspect.

[You should have seen me when I confronted my mom about there being no Santa Claus. I was most concerned with my parents having lied to me (and having my illusion shattered, but that happened well before I confronted her).]

I'm sensible enough when I'm not emotional. Actually I can be sensible and emotional at the same time. It's acting on the sensible thoughts, especially when it comes to relationships, that is so difficult.
I can talk the One talk, it's just difficult to walk the One walk w/o being a One. Maybe it's just that I'm an old fart so sensibility comes with age.

I score high on 4(obviously) but also high on 1, 9, 6, 2....median on 5 & 7...dead low on 8 and 3.

> I hope things work out ok. Hard to tell from just these few exchanges is he's really sincere and committed and will trust you enough to not lie again -- or what. But you sound like a sensible person! (You are a Four, not a One? You sound like you have a lot of good One qualities.)

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