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Posted by DingBat ( on June 16, 2003 at 15:37:50:

In Reply to: Thanks posted by Jewel ( on June 16, 2003 at 13:58:14:

> Thank you so much for your comments.

> I did tell him that I adored him three times the last time we were together, he didnt say anything. I also told him he makes me feel joyful imside when we are together and that I savor our quiet times in one another's presence, that it wasnt always the doing things together but the being together.

> Is this being very close and then moving away from me consistent with a fives behavior?

Not for me, no. I don't know enough other 5's to say if such behavior is common.

It is possible that your *telling* him had little meaning to him; some people only feel really loved by physical touching (like kissing, sex, massages, etc.), or by having something done for/with them (like doing favors, working on the house, etc.), while still others require gifts or the like. The simplest way to notice this about someone else is to observe what they do for *you* when they are trying to show they love you...and then reciprocate in kind later when you wish to make them feel loved.

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