Re: Reply to Lilia's message of June 8- Enne frustration

Posted by Amanda :) on June 30, 1999 at 03:58:46:

In Reply to: Reply to Lilia's message of June 8- Enne frustration posted by Gigi on June 29, 1999 at 11:38:36:

> Lilia, I posted my message right after yours. Please go and read it. Gigi

Hey Gigi

I eavesdropped in on your post....and I disagree with your assessment about the 9/6 thing. Whilst 9's may initially identify to an extent with all types (they see all sides), they (the one's I know, at least) rarely get all hung up on trying to understand themselves....to the extent that Lilia has. And indecision does not equal 6. It all depends on WHY one is indecisive - not the indecision itself.

It's just possible that Lilia is a 4w5 - as she (I presume 'she') suspects. 4's can get hung up on not 'fitting the mold' and find it difficult to nail down type sometimes. I should know - I appear so 7-ish that I get mistyped all the time. I met a woman with the same dilemma as Lilia on a weekend egram workshop. It wasn't until the last day that she finally decided she was a 4 - and said that she figured she couldn't possibly be, simply because she was so different from me! Go figure....

Anyway, in the final analysis, it all comes down to *motivations* for behaviour - rather than the behaviour itself.

smiles
Amanda :)

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